The opinions from the other side

   I was very talktive in nature, although I didn't have lots of chances. I was asked how I could manage to live like that with that kind of talktive nature. So I usually tend to be very active in a talking situation whenever I got an opportunity. The problem of this tendency is that I am very neglected to listen to other's stories due to hunger for talks of my stories. As a result, I try to be very idle for a while and deliberately to become a last minute presentor to say something, even it is killing me emotionally before my turn or I'm losing a great deal of concentration what issues are discussed around. 

   But that situation suddenly has changed a tune, when it become a person to person situation. A beginning part of stories is filled with my voices mainly, and occasional questions or opposite opinions tend to prevent me from developing ideas toward verbalizing words. So I hardly pick other's voice sensitively. The worst thing about this condition is that I am being fed up with my stories all around, and it is getting worse with aging.

   Fortunately enough, this time lasts long and steady to communicate with differences, whenever they occur in interpreting into individualization. Of course, mutual understaning is far over actualization, but at least, I do understand what kind of logic is prevailed in it.