Appearance

   There is an old saying of never judge by appearance. It could be right in a way, as long as I am putting on an emphasis toward only beauty in itself. If I'm talking about an overall impression, I would rather put some importance in appearance. Because there is no other way to know an inner side of indiividual unless a relationship has been established with spending quite some time.

   At a glance, everyone has their own preference to choose from intimate to hostile. It usually is formed on around three seconds when I see a stranger. In addition to that, if there is a chance to talk with, I tend to develop more comprehensive evaluation of that individual. Usually, it confirms and strengthen the previous things that I had in the beginning. Of course, I might be wrong occasionally, and that's why I delay own decision sometime later until I face with the right moment to be sure of.

   I thought that the difference in appearance as a various symbol to choose from would be a reflection of diversity and there would be some point to settle down as an equilibrium for mutual benefit, not solely by competition or force.

   It turns out to be unstable or wrong in some sense lately, at least up to now.