The woman showing up in the middle

   Kind, polite, and calm: those are three words to describe her for the past long long years. But all of sudden, that is not the case any longer. Of course, I do not mean that it does not apply to her at all in an objective sense, considering the fact that it is well furnished in the form of refinement here and there. However, my subjective perspective just has been modified at a blink of glimpse by upon realizing her way of handling people around. I have been immune to those gestures until I see what it is inside. I am surprised with how long it take me to realize in distingushing one from the other.  

 

   Seeing is believing. But if I miss a fundamental difference between 'seeing' and 'being seen' in an appropriate manners, I end up with believing something that could be misleading.