The Dialogue (32)

   I was asking my friend that "Isn't it strange to talk the same meaning three times in a row ?"

   I was watching on the drama that a higher ranking personal asked his employee to join a bite of noodles that he was having. Definitely, his offer was respectfully turned down. But he asked to join once again with a low tone. And he was refused by the sentence that "Thanks, but I already had meal before." He sounded like a little upset and insisted on having a bite of it again. Then he finally received the verification of acceptance to join that meal.

   I explained about this situation in a lengthy wording. Why they talked the same thing three times?, and it could be better off if they were communicating with one basic rule that when one says no, it means no to the other.

   But there are too many speculations that in spite of saying no, it means to yes just like a pull and push strategy between prospective lovers. I asked myself what would be purpose behind this kind of all the hassles. And it isn't definitely worth of doing it, is it?

   I was told by my friend that that would be a way of communications in a sense of delivering my mind to others. I knew what he was talking about, but still I couldn't get away from its disadvantages.